Periodically I catch myself judging people. Even when I'm very aware and even when I know I don't want to do so, I still catch myself judging people. I have noticed that I seem to judge when I don't feel well (emotionally or physically). I feel I need to be negative about something, just to make myself feel good. And...it never, never works! Honestly, it makes me feel worse and makes my mind act like a whirlwind, spending a lot of time and energy being wound up about other people's lives.
So...wondering why we judge?
When we judge others, we try to place them below ourselves. We seek arguments why we are better than others. Why the heck would we try to do that?? Most likely because we are feeling insecure. We don't like ourselves well enough at that moment and we feel we must be negative about someone else in order to make ourselves feel better. And, in reality how do you feel, this way of acting, is truly making us feel?
What we do when we are judging others is making a ranking. Everyone we meet.....read more here
So...wondering why we judge?
When we judge others, we try to place them below ourselves. We seek arguments why we are better than others. Why the heck would we try to do that?? Most likely because we are feeling insecure. We don't like ourselves well enough at that moment and we feel we must be negative about someone else in order to make ourselves feel better. And, in reality how do you feel, this way of acting, is truly making us feel?
What we do when we are judging others is making a ranking. Everyone we meet.....read more here
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